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25 Bible Verses About Quarrels and Arguments #
- Proverbs 15:1
- “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.”
- Commentary: Gentle responses can diffuse conflict, while harsh words escalate tensions.
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James 1:19-20
- “Know this, my beloved brothers: let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger; for the anger of man does not produce the righteousness of God.”
- Commentary: Patience and listening are key to avoiding unnecessary anger and fostering righteousness.
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Proverbs 17:14
- “The beginning of strife is like letting out water, so quit before the quarrel breaks out.”
- Commentary: Stopping conflict early can prevent a small issue from becoming a major problem.
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Ephesians 4:31-32
- “Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”
- Commentary: Christians are called to eliminate negative emotions and practice kindness and forgiveness.
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Proverbs 29:22
- “A man of wrath stirs up strife, and one given to anger causes much transgression.”
- Commentary: Anger can lead to conflict and sin; it is wise to control one’s temper.
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James 4:1-2
- “What causes quarrels and what causes fights among you? Is it not this, that your passions are at war within you? You desire and do not have, so you murder. You covet and cannot obtain, so you fight and quarrel.”
- Commentary: Internal desires and conflicts often lead to external quarrels and disputes.
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Proverbs 20:3
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Matthew 5:9
- “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God.”
- Commentary: Peacemakers are blessed and reflect God’s nature.
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Romans 12:18
- “If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.”
- Commentary: Strive for peace in all relationships, as much as it depends on you.
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2 Timothy 2:23-24
- “Have nothing to do with foolish, ignorant controversies; you know that they breed quarrels. And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil.”
- Commentary: Avoid pointless arguments; instead, be kind and patient.
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Proverbs 15:18
- “A hot-tempered man stirs up strife, but he who is slow to anger quiets contention.”
- Commentary: Controlling anger helps to calm conflicts and promote peace.
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Philippians 2:14
- “Do all things without grumbling or disputing.”
- Commentary: Approach all tasks and interactions without complaint or argument.
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Titus 3:2
- “To speak evil of no one, to avoid quarreling, to be gentle, and to show perfect courtesy toward all people.”
- Commentary: Christians should avoid speaking ill of others, refrain from quarreling, and show gentleness and courtesy.
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Proverbs 26:20
- “For lack of wood the fire goes out, and where there is no whisperer, quarreling ceases.”
- Commentary: Gossip fuels arguments; without it, conflicts die down.
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1 Peter 3:9
- “Do not repay evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary, bless, for to this you were called, that you may obtain a blessing.”
- Commentary: Responding to conflict with blessings rather than retaliation is a Christian calling.
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Colossians 3:13
- “Bearing with one another and, if one has a complaint against another, forgiving each other; as the Lord has forgiven you, so you also must forgive.”
- Commentary: Forgiveness and patience are essential in resolving conflicts.
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Proverbs 19:11
- “Good sense makes one slow to anger, and it is his glory to overlook an offense.”
- Commentary: Wisdom and patience in handling offenses lead to personal honor and peace.
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Galatians 5:15
- “But if you bite and devour one another, watch out that you are not consumed by one another.”
- Commentary: Continuous conflict can destroy relationships and communities.
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Matthew 18:15
- “If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother.”
- Commentary: Address conflicts privately and directly to seek resolution and reconciliation.
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Romans 14:19
- “So then let us pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding.”
- Commentary: Focus on actions and words that promote peace and strengthen others.
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Ecclesiastes 7:9
- “Be not quick in your spirit to become angry, for anger lodges in the heart of fools.”
- Commentary: Quick anger is foolish; wise individuals control their temper.
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1 Corinthians 1:10
- “I appeal to you, brothers, by the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree, and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be united in the same mind and the same judgment.”
- Commentary: Unity and agreement within the Christian community are paramount.
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Ephesians 4:26-27
- “Be angry and do not sin; do not let the sun go down on your anger, and give no opportunity to the devil.”
- Commentary: Address anger promptly and constructively to prevent sin and division.
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James 3:16
- “For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice.”
- Commentary: Jealousy and selfishness lead to conflict and moral chaos.
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Proverbs 13:10
- “By insolence comes nothing but strife, but with those who take advice is wisdom.”
- Commentary: Arrogance breeds conflict, while humility and willingness to take advice bring peace.
These verses provide a comprehensive biblical approach to handling quarrels and arguments, emphasizing patience, forgiveness, and the pursuit of peace. By internalizing these scriptures, Christian ministers can guide their congregations towards more harmonious and Christ-like interactions.
